So-"straight acting gays are full of bs?!"?

I think you're being too "black and white" on this. We all come in varying shades of how we - well, just are. You pride yourself on people not guessing you're gay. I think that perhaps you have some deep seated gay issues that you may want to look at. By that I mean perhaps you look at gay as bad or not normal - subconsciously. Just a thought, and that was not a condemnation. OK? Trying to be positive here. Just accept everyone for who they are.